Knowing when and how to say no is a critical life skill. Not saying no when you should is a great way of setting yourself for trouble. The problem is, some situations that require a no are trickier than others. Saying no to friends is one such delicate situation. Today on zen habits, there’s a thought-provoking little article (by guest blogger Marco Adragna of the Even Happier blog): “How to Say No and Stay Friends”
The tip that resonates most for me, personally is:
- Deliver a clear, firm, and respectful NO. You only build false hopes with wishy-washy responses. He has got the right to ask, and you’ve got the right to say no.